“Perfectionism is not the same thing has striving to be your best. Perfectionism is the belief that if we live perfect, look perfect, and act perfect, we can minimize or avoid the pain of blame, judgement, and shame. It’s a shield. It’s a twenty-ton shield that we lug around thinking it will protect us when, in fact, it’s the thing that’s really preventing us from flight.”

Grievance and possibility have confusing roots.

Faced with a choice between changing one’s mind and proving there is no need to do so, almost everyone gets busy with the proof. 

To the wrongs that need resistance, To the right that needs assistance, To the future in the distance, Give yourselves.

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