The homily last Sunday was centered on the theme, “where does it hurt?”. Our priest’s point was that you cannot identify how to fix what ails you until you know what is really causing the pain.
Where Does It Hurt?
Apr 28, 2019 6:53:54 PM / by Tim McCarthy posted in Monthly Newsletter
My first thoughts are generally good. At this age and with my experience, I suppose they should be. But first thoughts are still only that: first thoughts. They should be only the beginning of a process of exploration. Rarely do first thoughts stand the tests of time and season. And clinging to first thoughts by resisting new facts is a path to ignorance. Second thoughts and third ones take more time and deliberation, but the payoff is substantial. This month’s article (see below) is “Second-Order Thinking” by blogger Shane Parrish (www.farnamstreet.com). Parrish is a thought leader in the financial investment community and his article is based around Howard Marks’ new book, “The Most Important Thing”. Their thoughts are deep and informative. First and second level thinking can be applied to every decision we make in life: acquiring or leaving a home, a car, a business, a partner or a friend as well as developing our values, political views and spirituality. Where are you stuck in first level thinking? · Lost a friend because they “did something”?
No Self-made Man am I
Feb 28, 2019 9:30:58 AM / by Tim McCarthy posted in Monthly Newsletter
Trust Their Lips but Watch Their Hips
Jan 25, 2019 3:28:47 PM / by Tim McCarthy posted in Monthly Newsletter
I see Patrick Sloan around town from time to time and my greeting is always the same: “thanks for the tip”.
Plans and Self-Actualization
Dec 31, 2018 3:18:23 PM / by Tim McCarthy posted in Monthly Newsletter
This last in this series of “things I know for sure” is that no person can become what they want to be without a written plan.
Doing the Things We Hate To Do
Nov 29, 2018 2:13:39 PM / by Tim McCarthy posted in Monthly Newsletter
In 66 years I’ve learned that I can only do what I love to do if (and only if) I’m willing to also do the things least appealing to me. Here’s just a few of those things.
Political Moderation
Oct 26, 2018 9:38:28 AM / by Tim McCarthy posted in Monthly Newsletter
We interrupt “This Much I Know” series for this unpaid, somewhat political announcement:
Focus on People, Product, Process
Sep 29, 2018 10:46:53 AM / by Tim McCarthy posted in Monthly Newsletter
The third in this series, “this much I know”, is that successful organizations require three ingredients: People, Product and Process.
Moderation in All Things
Aug 29, 2018 12:27:47 PM / by Tim McCarthy posted in Monthly Newsletter
The second of five things I think I now know (for sure) is that moderation is ultimately the position I strive for in every element of my life. Below are six topics (I could write dozens) through which I’ve travelled from extreme to extreme. Also find a favorite book that caused me to reconsider each.
The Virtuous Cycle of Learning
Jul 27, 2018 4:04:15 PM / by Tim McCarthy posted in Monthly Newsletter
Just as intellect or athleticism are gifts, so too is natural curiosity. And as with all gifts, they are advanced if/when we apply self-discipline. Or they can be left undeveloped by ignorance or complacence.