Favorite excerpt: “If you should decide to experiment with this projection of yourself through investments in other people, you must be prepared for all manner of failures, disillusionments, disgusts. You will frequently go to no end of trouble and expense for somebody who turns out to be a pest and a piker. You will be imposed upon, lied to, lied about! You will run into cases of ingratitude so rank that it will sicken you! But now and again, you will manage to put the thing over... and when you do you will discover it has squared for all the failures you’ve ever had.”
http://www.amazon.com/Magnificent-Obsession-Lloyd-C-Douglas/dp/0395957745